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Toddler House (Haiti part five)

The fifth and final post from my time in Haiti (until our next project)!  The orphanage is broken up into a couple of different houses about a mile away from each other.  The house that we spent most of our time at was the baby house, or the main house.  On our final day, they had us go to the toddler house and hang out with some pretty cool kiddos for a couple hours.  Even though it’s called the toddler house, it is home to many kids from 2 1/2 to 15 years old.  Some staying as long as it takes for the rest of their family to find permanent and safe housing.  Many are in the adoption process and already assigned to forever families.  And still others are there because their original orphanage was damaged in the earthquake.  One thing was super clear to me as I was MOBBED from the moment they all came running out of the house… they all desperately want their person (Gray’s Anatomy reference).  Someone they could belong to and would belong to them.

Adoption is truly a remarkable thing.

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This little one planted herself between my legs for the first 20 minutes, then laid in my lap for the next hour and a half.

This little one planted herself between my legs for the first 20 minutes, then laid in my lap for the next hour and a half.

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Another lap dweller! I didn't think my lap was big enough for two kids simultaneously.  They did.  :)

Another lap dweller! I didn't think my lap was big enough for two kids simultaneously. They did. :)

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As with every group we met during the week, leaving was absolutely the hardest part. Ideas are brewing... stay tuned.

As with every group we met during the week, leaving was absolutely the hardest part. Ideas are brewing... stay tuned.

 
Hidden Families (Haiti part four)

My new friend Erin is a rockstar.  Originally from Nashville, she is now making her residence in the hills above Port-au-Prince serving just about every demographic in the valley below.  She is working with Thirst No More to coordinate need and relief efforts.  From finding orphanages filled with kids who need wheelchairs to providing tents and coordinating medical aid… she’s doing it all.  The need is so great — every day, she picks one and does her best to meet it.  I’m waiting for the dust to settle here a little bit, but we’re already talking about going back and serving along side.

Erin was the one who told our driver where to go for the city photos I posted yesterday, and yes, she even led him down this crazy riverbed to get to an otherwise inaccessible neighborhood.  These might be some of my favorite photos from the week.  The joy in spite of baking in 95 degree weather and living in a tin shack with a tarp roof…well, I was speechless.  Crystal’s word to describe the week was “resilience.”  This neighborhood was the epitome of that.  Garbage bag kites, cardboard store signs, and pigs sleeping where you wash your clothes.  It was all really surreal.  Hungry bellies and still, such a calm peace in their expressions.

Most of the photos are of the women, as our security detail waited in the car.  Just to take natural precautions, we avoided the areas where the men were hanging out.  Plus, I was generally mesmerized by the strength of the women who managed the home and kids and ran businesses at the same time.

Once again… our road… (color is funky on this first one as it was shot through a car windshield)

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GLA (Haiti part two)

One of the sweetest surprises on our trip was being able to spend so much time with the orphans at God’s Littlest Angels.  We were initially told we would be sorting through containers and delivering supplies shipped from Colorado, but unfortunately, all the containers are still stuck in the Port.  So we learned how to be flexible!  While Jay and Nick did construction on the orphanage’s new property at the top of the mountain, the rest of us snuggled some pretty incredible kiddos!  I’m not authorized to identify each baby below by name but Jerrensia, Jude, Wislande, Michael, and Jerry definitely stole a few hearts within our group.  Some of the babies are in the orphanage to receive care until their families are stable {no longer living in tents}, others are there in intensive care for malnourishment.  Several came from another orphanage damaged in the earthquake, and of course, many are in limbo in the adoption process waiting for their forever families.

Every story is so incredibly unique…all involving a parent who made a heart wrenching decision.  Many parents still visit the babies on a regular basis, even the babies who are in the adoption process and will eventually be leaving the country.  Some parents stopped visiting after the earthquake… Can’t even imagine.  What is clear that there are certainly moments of joy with these kids and moments of sadness.  They have experienced the same trauma that has caused grown men to go running down the city street naked {kind of caught me off guard}; caused missionaries to return home and nurses to slit their wrists.  When we went through foster care training, they told us that even if the child came from an abusive and neglectful home he or she will be in a state of grief over the loss of their parents.  They know they’re not home…they’re in between.  And let’s be honest.  That can be a lonely place even when you’re surrounded by people with good intentions.

This little guy's dimpled smile made me melt EVERY time!

This little guy's dimpled smile made me melt EVERY time!

The little one on the left is a year old weighing in under 6lbs.  She received just enough for survival but not enough for growth.  I always thought they were one in the same.  The baby Candice is holding on the right is quite a bit larger at only a couple months old.

The little one on the left is 1 year old weighing in at just 8lbs. She received just enough for survival but not enough for growth. I always thought they were one in the same. The baby Candice is holding on the right is quite a bit larger at only a couple months old.

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Team member, Marshall, on the right was right at home surrounded by all the kids.  He's a proud daddy of four!

Marshall (right) was at home surrounded by all the kids. He's a proud daddy of four!

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Love Sandy.  She spent her first week in hospitals in PAP and her second week with the babies.

Love Sandy. She spent her first week in hospitals in PAP and her second week with the babies.

Another baby who is a year old (on left) who was severely malnourished.  The GLA nannies are doing a great job of starting to plump them up.  The little guy on the right was born premature and is around 4lbs at 3 weeks old.

Another baby who is a year old (left) who was severely malnourished. The GLA nannies are doing a great job of starting to plump them up. The little guy on the right was born premature and is around 4lbs at 3 weeks old.

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The US has stopped allowing medical visas.  As soon as they open the borders again, the hope is that GLA will be able to find a medical team that will fix her legs pro bono.  This sweet girl had an opinion about everything and quite possibly one of the most beautiful voices I've ever heard.

Sadly, the US has stopped allowing medical visas. As soon as they open the borders again, the hope is that GLA will be able to find a medical team that will fix her legs. This sweet girl had an opinion about everything and quite possibly one of the most beautiful voices I've ever heard. Our not so secret plan is to get a team of doctor's from the DeVos Children's Hospital on board and be her foster parents for her while she's here. Her parents still visit her at the orphanage... how incredible would it be for her to be able to run and play and be able to go home with her real mom and dad?!

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Such a little caterpillar!  Check out the transformation below!  I'm pretty sure she wanted to keep Crystal (above and making her laugh below) and the feeling was clearly mutual.

Such a little caterpillar! Check out the transformation below! I'm pretty sure she wanted to keep Crystal (above and making her laugh below) and the feeling was clearly mutual.

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This gentlemen is from Australia and just happens to be traveling the world and he found GLA online and decided to stay a few weeks.  Yes, he's giving this little one a pedicure!

This gentlemen is from Australia and just happens to be traveling the world. He found GLA online and decided to stay a few weeks to hold babies. Yes, he's giving this little one a pedicure!

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The view from the balcony where the playroom is set up is extraordinary!

The view from the balcony where the playroom is set up is extraordinary!

There were times we felt completely spoiled knowing the needs were so great outside the gates to the orphanage.

There were times we felt completely spoiled. :)

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The view... if you follow the valley all the way to the horizon, that is Port-au-Prince and the bay.  Only 15 miles away but it seemed hundreds of miles away at that moment.

The view... if you follow the valley all the way to the horizon, you'll find Port-au-Prince and the bay. Only 15 miles but it seemed hundreds of miles away at that moment.

To follow the stories of these babies, you can read the blog of one of the nurses in the NICU…

 
J/P HRO (Haiti part 1)

First of all, thank you to EVERYONE who helped raise the money for us (and many of our other team members!) to get to Haiti and provide so many needed supplies!!  I also cannot underestimate the power of the prayers that followed us there.  We were able to serve in many different capacities from loving on malnourished infants at the orphanage to building a new facility for them to caring for the caretakers and people in tent cities.  In all honesty, being back home has been a struggle as the needs are still so great there.  My heart is torn.  I’m pretty sure there will be another trip in the near future.

Kites flew over every tent camp and in every concrete mess of a neighborhood.  To me, the kite represents the hearts of the Haitians.  Battered, pieced together, hanging on by a thread, with an uncanny ability to soar.

Kites fly over every tent camp and in every concrete mess of a neighborhood. To me, the kite represents the hearts of the Haitians. Battered, pieced together, hanging on by a thread, with an uncanny ability to soar.

In honor of Anderson Cooper’s interview with Sean Penn this evening on CNN, the first batch of photos is from our time spent at his organization, J/P HRO, nestled within a tent camp of 60,000 residents.  Shortly after the earthquake, I began following Alison Thompson on twitter (@lightxxx).  She quickly became my hero.  Alison is the epitome of a girl who knows how to get her hands dirty serving others.  Following the tsunami in 2004, a two week medical mission turned into a year of serving the people of Sri Lanka independent of any aid organization.  Can’t wait to find a copy of the video.  Aside from the independent awards, it received a great review by Grand Rapid’s very own  Spout.  Alison is now on another long term mission serving the patients that come through the J/P HRO medical tents (not to mention living life in a tent herself).  She graciously welcomed us into their camp where we were able to talk with some of their patients and nurses at the women’s clinic that Sean briefly discussed in his interview with Anderson Cooper the night before we were there.

A very small portion of the camp. The tents on the side of the hills are in grave danger when the rains come.  The sand beneath their floors turns to a slimy mud and threatens to wash all the makeshift tents down the hill in a deadly snowball effect.  As of Thursday, they received permission to bus 6,000 people off from the side of the hills and into the country.

A very small portion of the camp. The tents on the side of the hills are in grave danger when the rains come. When wet, the sand turns to a slimy mud and threatens to wash all the makeshift tents down the hill in a deadly snowball effect. As of Thursday, they received permission to evacuate 6,000 people off from the side of the hills and into the country.

The photo on the left is of an elderly woman begging for food.  Food distribution has stopped leaving 60,000 people hungry.  Those who manage to find food through small NGOs do so at their own risk... the elderly and weak are at a severe disadvantage.  There is simply not enough to go around.  Even with hungry bellies, there is a joy that just baffles me as shown in the young family in the tent on the right.

The photo on the left is of an elderly woman begging from all who walked up the hill towards the medical clinic. Food distribution has stopped leaving 60,000 people hungry. Those who manage to find food through small NGOs do so at their own risk... the elderly and weak are at a severe disadvantage. There is simply not enough to go around. Even with hungry bellies, there is a joy that just astounds me that is obvious in the young family living in a tent on the right.

Fifteen year old, Junior, was one of my personal favorites.  His home was destroyed, he lost many friends and an aunt and uncle, and yet, you couldn't wipe this smile off his face.  He speaks five languages: French, Creole, English, Hebrew, and Latin.  He wants to be a doctor.  This American soldier has become one of his best friends.  Junior's sunglasses were a gift from the soldier.  We also watched as the soldier taught Junior his best dance moves.  I love the US Army.

Fifteen year old, Junior, was one of my personal favorites. His home was destroyed, he lost many friends when his school collapsed, lost an aunt and uncle, and yet, you couldn't wipe this smile off his face. He speaks five languages: French, Creole, English, Hebrew, and Latin. He wants to become a doctor. Junior might be this American soldier's favorite too as he gave Junior the pair of sunglasses he's wearing. We also watched as the soldier taught Junior his best dance moves. I love the US Army.

A young mother waits in line to be seen at the women's clinic and another young girl begs on the side of the path.

A young mother waits in line to be seen at the women's clinic and another young girl begs on the side of the path. The adults with the younger girl were not her parents. Generally, not a good sign.

This young man has picked up some great English phrases... my favorite, "I love you."

This young man has picked up some great English phrases... my favorite, "I love you."

Fellow team members Crystal and Candice led a couple of group counseling sessions where they explained Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.  Many of the medical problems they complain about are direct symptoms of it.  They didn't even know there was such a thing.  The girls gave them practical techniques to deal with the symptoms and treat the causes.  Even though we were only able to be there for a few hours, I know these women went back to their tents and talked to other women.  Something this simple validated them and helped them to know that this is normal -- they're not going crazy.

Fellow team members Crystal (in the Cubs hat) and Candice (in the Cubs shirt) led a couple of group counseling sessions where they explained Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Many of the medical problems they complain about are direct symptoms of it. This was new information for the women. Candace and Crystal gave them practical techniques to deal with the symptoms and treat the causes. Good time of Q&A too. Even though we were only able to be there for a few hours, I know these women went back to their tents and talked to the other women in their lives. It validated them and helped them to know that what they are experiencing is a normal response to a traumatic experience.

A quick snap of the women's clinic.  This small tent is a safe haven for hundreds of women every day.

A quick snap of the women's clinic. This small tent is a safe haven for hundreds of women every day. Please pray for strength for the nurses working here... the burden they carry is so heavy.

A team member we adopted from the orphanage who acted as our translator when the girls counseled this beautiful 18 year old nurse from J/P HRO.  She survived the earthquake and was in her first year of medical school, now she lives in the tent city with her aunt and uncle and is serving the women in the clinic.  I am so thankful she took the time to talk and take care of herself.

A team member we adopted from the orphanage, Vivienne, who acted as our translator when Candice and Crystal counseled this beautiful 18 year old nurse from J/P HRO. She survived the earthquake with her aunt and uncle and was in her first year of medical school, now she lives in the tent city and is serving her neighbors in the clinic. After counseling another woman who tried to kill her baby with bleach, the nurse began talking through her own nightmares as she tries to hold herself together. There is such a great need for counselors for the caretakers! If you know of any trained counselor who is interested -- we can put you in contact with an organization at this tent city who desperately needs the help. Please continue to pray for this sweet girl too.

Another young Haitian nurse that received counseling for her own horrific experience.  She's so broken, yet so strong... and continues to care for so many.  The most heart-wrenching thing was to encourage her and then have her ask, "You're coming back tomorrow, right?"

Another young Haitian nurse that received counseling for her own horrific experience which included the death of her father among so many other things. She's so broken, yet so strong... and continues to care for so many. The most heart-wrenching thing was after we were able to encourage her, she asked, "You're coming back tomorrow, right?" This 17 year old has a long, long road ahead. Pray that she'll remember that God's hands are big enough to hold her too. The gorgeous 42 year old woman on the right is a mother of 6 kids. She has not eaten in a while and was hoping we'd be able to give her food. There is apparently an organization that is distributing food to the women and children, but she has become too weak to withstand the pushing and shoving. When asked where she gets the food she does eat, she simply said, "I eat what God gives me." The sad reality is that like the elderly woman above, there is a large number of women who fall into this category.

Crystal is a great hugger.  That smile makes me cry.

Crystal is a great hugger. :) Knowing what this girl has been through, this smile brings tears to my eyes. This is the definition of being the hands and feet of God.

Driving out of the tent city.  Sadly, the orphanage needed the car back so we had to leave at 2:30.  The three hours we spent there were way too short.  I am so thankful for every minute... these people rocked my world.

Driving out of the tent city. Sadly, the orphanage needed the car back so we had to leave at 2:30. The three hours we spent there were way too short. I am so thankful for every minute... these people rocked my world.

To make a world of difference to one family, you can provide a tent for a family living in a makeshift home of tarps, curtains, sheets, and corrugated metal.  The tents are obviously still needed.  Visit A Home In Haiti for more information.